Yep, I've been pretty busy over here for a sick gal!
Agape Events Blog:
Destination Wedding.... Or is it?
I Discover Pinterest
Weddings for Everyone!
Vera Wang comes to David's Bridal
Indian Wedding Inspiration
Irish Wedding Inspiration
I also started a new blog based on my Pinterest obsessions!
The beginning of my caprese obsession...
Bacon Chipotle Poppers
My caprese obsession continues...
I've been wrapping a up lot of AOII stuff and dealing with a major illness. Oh, right, I haven't told you about my whole tonsillectomy thing!
So, as most of us know, I've had tonsillitis since my would-be senior year of college! Awesome fun, let me tell you... anyways, in June my throat started hurting bad enough that I finally went to the doctor in August to see what the deal is. After a couple of appointments, the PA decided that I've probably had the same infection since June and it isn't going away with antibiotics, so I'll have to go in for surgery.
Lately, I've gotten even more sick and more run down and I have to just make it to December and I'll be good-- unfortunately, they predict a 2 week recovery time and there's not an earlier date that I can shake off two weeks. We're supposed to go up to Indiana for Thanksgiving so I don't want to miss that since we're dying to see Josh and Sarah. We were hoping that Ana would still be there with the new niece and nephew, but it would appear they're hoping everyone will come to them this weekend so that's a no-go. Della's wedding is end of October, right after homecoming at Rhodes/an excuse to head to Memphis and see Marc and Jan, and we're not going to miss out on seeing Aunt Linda and Uncle Rube next weekend since we haven't seen them since the wedding!
Anyway, I'm trying to push my way through-- I've been through worse with less, so there's no reason I can't get through this!
Oh, well, I need to head to bed now, but there will be more updates soon! If you like any of my links above, please do me a favor and share them!
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Troy Davis
Moments ago, the State of Georgia pronounced Troy Davis dead. For those of you who don't know, Davis was convicted 20 years ago of killing a police officer. The court case has been in question ever since, with 7/9 eye witnesses recanting their testimony and some even claiming police coercion and bullying. Contrary to popular belief, Davis did NOT confess in court and later recant-- witnesses said Davis confessed to THEM and later recanted their testimony saying the police threatened them with arrest and prosecution if they had not testified against Davis. 12 people found Davis guilty of murder in under 2 hours and another 12 sentenced him to death after 7. Nine hours of consideration to end the life of a person.
I know the death penalty is a sticky subject, and one that I believe brings out the worst in people. A woman I know who considers herself to be very Christian and forgiving said, "Sorry, buddy, you shot a police officer in the face, you get a one way ticket courtesy of the State of Georgia."
Though I'm not religious, how can you claim to follow a faith full of Grace and Forgiveness and claim that it isn't your place to judge and then turn around and say something like that?
Our judicial system isn't perfect, and even if it was I'd be against the Death Penalty.
1. The Davis case proves that even though there was (in my mind and the minds of many of my lawyer friends) plenty of room and reason to re-open this case and this investigation, the system is built to support its decisions. There's no wiggle room on high profile cases.
2. The potential for systematic abuse exists on the front end. Do I understand the desire of the officers in Davis' case to find justice for a fellow officer? Of course. But do I think they should have been entrusted to investigating the case and handling the witnesses? No. No I do not. We say that people are fine, upstanding citizens, but you don't know what kind of person you are until you're put in that situation.
3. Who are we to judge? I could not in good conscience send another human being to death under any circumstances. If they're mentally ill, can we really hold them responsible for their actions? If not, and they repent, wouldn't living with that for the rest of your life be punishment enough? And what about prison? Do we really think that's all sunshine and rainbows?
4. What's the point? Will killing someone for killing someone, tit for tat, an eye for an eye REALLY help serve justice? It doesn't bring back McPhail or any other person presumably killed by a death row inmate. I can't imagine the sorrow and pain that the victim's family feels, I know what it's like to have someone suddenly ripped from your life and to add the strife of a violent and potentially painful death AND a court case AND an execution... can't we just leave them to grieve? Why do we have to drag them through all of that? Are you going to feel any better about yourself for depriving another mother of her son? Another wife of her husband? Another child of her parent?
It isn't our place to judge. There are bigger forces than us at play and I, for one, am inclined to leave things to them. My thoughts are with both McPhail's and Davis's families tonight and I hope that both men are at peace in a better world than this one.
I'll leave you with this quote from Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. which is something we should remember and take to heart each and every day:
"I mourn the loss of thousands of precious lives, but I will not rejoice in the death of one, not even an enemy. Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that."
I know the death penalty is a sticky subject, and one that I believe brings out the worst in people. A woman I know who considers herself to be very Christian and forgiving said, "Sorry, buddy, you shot a police officer in the face, you get a one way ticket courtesy of the State of Georgia."
Though I'm not religious, how can you claim to follow a faith full of Grace and Forgiveness and claim that it isn't your place to judge and then turn around and say something like that?
Our judicial system isn't perfect, and even if it was I'd be against the Death Penalty.
1. The Davis case proves that even though there was (in my mind and the minds of many of my lawyer friends) plenty of room and reason to re-open this case and this investigation, the system is built to support its decisions. There's no wiggle room on high profile cases.
2. The potential for systematic abuse exists on the front end. Do I understand the desire of the officers in Davis' case to find justice for a fellow officer? Of course. But do I think they should have been entrusted to investigating the case and handling the witnesses? No. No I do not. We say that people are fine, upstanding citizens, but you don't know what kind of person you are until you're put in that situation.
3. Who are we to judge? I could not in good conscience send another human being to death under any circumstances. If they're mentally ill, can we really hold them responsible for their actions? If not, and they repent, wouldn't living with that for the rest of your life be punishment enough? And what about prison? Do we really think that's all sunshine and rainbows?
4. What's the point? Will killing someone for killing someone, tit for tat, an eye for an eye REALLY help serve justice? It doesn't bring back McPhail or any other person presumably killed by a death row inmate. I can't imagine the sorrow and pain that the victim's family feels, I know what it's like to have someone suddenly ripped from your life and to add the strife of a violent and potentially painful death AND a court case AND an execution... can't we just leave them to grieve? Why do we have to drag them through all of that? Are you going to feel any better about yourself for depriving another mother of her son? Another wife of her husband? Another child of her parent?
It isn't our place to judge. There are bigger forces than us at play and I, for one, am inclined to leave things to them. My thoughts are with both McPhail's and Davis's families tonight and I hope that both men are at peace in a better world than this one.
I'll leave you with this quote from Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. which is something we should remember and take to heart each and every day:
"I mourn the loss of thousands of precious lives, but I will not rejoice in the death of one, not even an enemy. Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that."
Friday, September 16, 2011
SO proud of my gals!
No, I'm not dead! I've just gone from being sick for a week with a stomach virus (only two days of actual virus-ing, the rest was an overblown recovery time!) to recruitment and now I'm sitting here putting off things I need to do...
I'm so proud of my girls, I can't begin to explain it! Here are some shots from recruitment and Bid Day when we met our 25 AMAZING new members!!
It was a long, hard, and stressful week for all of us but it paid off in the end-- our phenomenal new members are excited about AOII and we couldn't be happier to have them!
I'm so proud of my girls, I can't begin to explain it! Here are some shots from recruitment and Bid Day when we met our 25 AMAZING new members!!
Danielle and Poel at the door for Open House
Walkway in for Open House
Goofy Chapter after Open House
Poel, my AMAZING VP Membership Recruitment and I after Sisterhood
Girls at the door for Sisterhood-- EmJ, Marie, and Katie mug for the camera
The girls went to Piedmont and took some BEAUTIFUL pictures to put on the wall!
Kentucky Derby Theme...
TOO CUTE!
This is Hannah, one of my advisees, doing her best Stepford Wife impression
Me and Diana after Sisterhood-- she is TOO FUNNY
Philanthropy Banner
Welcome Home!!
Chapter after Philanthropy
Balloon Party!
Kristen, Yasaman and I are stuck in the elevator!
Danielle and Poel before Preference
Gamma Sigma Alumnae at Preference
Chapter in Rose Formation after Preference
Vanessa, Jessica and Jessica with the Bid Day Bags
We're going 90's this fall!
Getting ready for Run Out
Chu-Chu with the Alpha!
Alumnae, New Members, and Collegiate Members!!
It was a long, hard, and stressful week for all of us but it paid off in the end-- our phenomenal new members are excited about AOII and we couldn't be happier to have them!
Fall 2011 Pledge Class!
Saturday, September 3, 2011
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